"Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly. Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes. This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows. " Thomas S. Monson

May 07, 2008

Marrage Tag...

I have a marriage tag....now i tag...Rayni, Jenna, Stacy, Rickell.

1. What his your hubby's Full name? Nicholas James Haslem
2. How long have you been married? For 5 wonderful years
3. How long did you date? Since i was 14, we dated 4 years and married for 5 = 9 year all together
4. How old is he? 24 in August
5. Who east more? Nick, but i sure can eat too!
6. Who said "I love you" First? I think it was nick but im not sure.
7. Who is taller? Nick, but we were the same when we first met then nick shot right up
8. Who signs better? O' man we both suck in that area, but he does sing good in the shower
9. Who pays the bills? I pay the bills
10. Who is smarter? That would be nick for sure
11. Who's temper is worse? Mine ya i have a pretty short fuse.
12. Who does the dishes? I do 90% of the time
13. Who does the laundry? I do 99% of the time
14. Who mows the lawn? Nick, but i have done it a few times for him.
15. Who sleeps on the right side of the bed? if we are laying in the bed, I do
16. Who makes dinner? Me unless we BBQ then nick does
17. Who drives when your together? Mostly nick but sometimes me
18. Who kissed who first? Nick kissed me, in front of his bedroom Mirror, when he asked me out
19. Who asked who out first? Nick asked me
20. Where was your first date? To the movies theaters with my bro and his sis, we saw Toy Story, that was a really funny date
21. Who proposed? Nick
22. How did they propose? At Sea World while we were swimming with the Dolphins
23. Who is more stubborn? Me
24. Who is the first to admit their wrong? Nick is better at it but im getting better as well
25. Who parents do you see most? Nicks, they just live 2 min away
26. Who has more friends? I think we are about even
27. Who has more sibling? Me, I have 3 sisters and 4 bothers, Nick has one brother and 2 sisters
28. Who is more sensitive? Nick definitely is more of a softy them me
29. Who wears the pants? I saw that some people wrote they each share one leg, but i don't think that works...so i would say i mostly do but i let nick put some on sometimes!!!

good advice!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, & next to the heart to be loved.

brothers forever

brothers forever

the haslem family