"Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly. Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes. This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows. " Thomas S. Monson

August 23, 2018

Our little khailo starts KINDERGARTEN

Today my #3 starts kindergarten, khailo boy officially begins his school career! I've been honored to be home with him for 5 beautiful years.  Today I snuggled with him on the floor and couldn't believe that this sweet special time we have had together is, in a way over.  My heart is so full of love and happiness for this boy!
My mommy heart loves his little boy heart more then he will ever know..I'm praying he will grow into an amazing, smart, loving, kind hearted boy who cares so much about others and puts others needs before his own. He has always been my most "chill" kid, who loves to make others happy, he ALWAYS brings his mommy fresh picked flowers and always makes sure to say goodnight and "I love you"...all these little times mean so much to me and dad...we will cherish these special memories for a lifetime!

August 22, 2018

Kiptin gets baptized

Today was the day..rain or shine you were getting baptized! 8-22-18

Since your birthday is in December, and you REALLY wanted to get baptized outside at one of your favorite fishing ponds.... we had to wait til it got warm enough to venture up the mountain. Well every time we had a date in mind it just seemed to not work out... at first we had planned to take you to Hawaii for your baptism but just  couldn't make it work out...and when we decided that we just needed to get it done for you, that's when you said you wanted to do it at your fishing spot... "Aspen Mirror Lake" up cedar mountain by duck creek village.

We finally set a date and told everyone about it. Well that morning came and it was sooo stormy and so cold. I was so worried and knew that it just wasnt going to be good for everyone traveling... my heart was soo sad seeing you so sad.  You were quite. I was trying to talk with dad and see what he wanted to do.
I was standing in our kitchen and you were sitting on the side of the couch looking out our big giant window, just staring so quietly.

I said, kip I dont know if we will be able to make this happen for you today. We may have to wait until next week.

You sat without looking at me or saying a word for a minute. And then you said..
Mom, I prayed this morning to heavenly father and asked him if it could just be sunny long enough for me to be able to get baptized.  I really think he will answer my prayer, I just want to try.

My heart sank and tears filled my mommy eyes. I knew how much kip wanted this and how long we had already made him wait. 
He had more faith then I did and it really hit hard that he was willing to have the faith even though it was so dark outside and so stormy. 

I sent out a text to everyone and told them that kiptin still wanted to go up and that we understood if anyone didnt want to travel in the storm but my little boy still wanted this to be his date and had faith in his prayer that heavenly father would make it happen.

We drove up the mountain, it was raining and dark most all the way up, in was so scared that in just a few minutes my little boy was going to get his heart broken.

Just a few miles from the turn off to the pond...it became sunny and bright.  My heart just thanked my heavenly father and prayed it was like this at his spot.
His eyes were so big and bright, his face was so happy and my heart was so full.

As we pulled in most everyone we invited was already there..my heart was happy yet again that no matter what, they weren't missing it.

We walked down the path to his little pond and the sun was shining so bright on us...the warmth was like a big hug from heavenly father just saying, this is your day and I love you.

The next cool thing that happened was there was NO ONE at the pond... we have never been to that pond and have no one there before.  He got to have his perfect spot, perfect day, and all because he had so much faith.  His daddy walked into the freezing water with him, hand in hand and gave him his day!

We are so proud of him and his sweet spirit...he is a light of hope in this world and will do great things!

August 14, 2018

First day of school!

Kaylin started hisn7th grade year!
Kiptin started his 3rd grade year!

Number 3, our little khailo will be starting his school adventure as well this year, going into kindergarten next week!

Three down one to go!!!

Honestly I'll pretty dang heart broken when all my boys are off to school and I'm a lone mama at home. 

We look at kaylin and cant believe he is already in his 2nd year of middle school! We feel OLD. So OLD.
We aren't even old enough to have a kid that's 12!!!

I hope and pray that our boys will love learning and try their very best to become something so great in life so they can enjoy all the fun things this crazy world has to offer! A good education makes all the difference!

Happy new school year adventure boys..we love you more then you'll ever know!

August 08, 2018

8.8.18 happy 15th anniversary to us today!

15 years down...eternity to go!
8.8.18 another cool year!

August 06, 2018

Happy 34th birthday to my soulmate!

18 birthdays I've spent with you. Today you turned 34....how is that possible? From 16 to 34?!?!?!?!

good advice!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, & next to the heart to be loved.

brothers forever

brothers forever

the haslem family