"Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly. Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes. This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows. " Thomas S. Monson

December 20, 2012

Happy 3rd Birthday to our sweet little Kiptin....

my sweet little boy turns 3 today. i cant believe how fast the years go by. right now we are sitting at the turtle bay hotel beach building sand castles, watching the 3 boys i love the most in life melts my heart. kiptin is such a strong minded and so independent little boy, he is feisty but so sweet when he wants to be. the times he come up and snuggles with me our my favorite moments.  some of my favorite things he says now are: "i love u too mom" he just come up and hugs me and says that he doesnt just say i love u, he adds the "too" in there which makes it so cute. another all time favorite is "thank me" he says this instead of "thank you"...its also my favorite, the way it come out of his mouth is so darn cute!  he is for sure our spitfire child, he takes no crap from anyone..you make him mad and he lets you know for sure!
 i couldnt live life with out this sweet little boy, he has brought so much joy and love to our family, kaylin and him are such good little buddies...kaylin says he will always have a friend to play with even when none of his out side friends can play because he has a brother :) thats exactly what nick and i wanted for them in life is to always have eachother! kiptin is so lucky to have sucha great big brother like kaylin he takes such good care of him and is always thinking of him no matter what he is doing!
we love u so much kiptin, you have brought us more joy then you will ever know. thank you for choosing us as your family, always remember how much we care for you and love you and we will always try to do the best by you and always do the best for you. as your mom my heart and life is so full with you in it, love you forever my son!


good advice!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, & next to the heart to be loved.

brothers forever

brothers forever

the haslem family