"Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly. Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes. This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows. " Thomas S. Monson

September 15, 2012

Good bye Binky....

I totally forget to write down the story of kiptin FINALLY loosing the bink....a MUST NOT FORGET!!!
Don't you hate when you go into the doc office and they sit down and do all there check up on your kids and then after thats all done they come at with all the things you need to be doing??? well i took kiptin into his 2 year chk up and of course he had his Binky with him and he was sad from shots and finger pokes so he wanted his bink, so i gave it to him and his doc says how often does he have that and i said really only when he goes to bed or when we are in the car, i dont let him just walk around with it all day but if he finds one he will stick it in his mouth. He said have you tried to get rid of it yet?....DUH YES are you kidding i have tried and tried but in the middle of the night a mom just needs her sleep! so i wasnt trying really really had but one by one the binky's would get lost or i would chuck one in the trash cause it had a little hole or something so we only had 1 or 2 in the house at that point anyways.
well that same night he and kaylin went out side on our deck and it was almost all the way dark outside still a tiny bit of light but not much, I herd kiptin say that he was going to throw the bink over the rail and i yelled from the kitchen that if you throw it we can not get it til morning cause its too dark outside to see where it is to find it....moments later kaylin said well kiptin throw it over mom, its gone.
so i looked at kiptin and told him that i had said if he throw it over i wouldnt be able to get it til morning and he would have to go to bed without it. he looked at me and you could tell he was sad but understood that he would have to wait until it was light out to go find it, and he actually went to bed better then i thought he would, i just figured there would be a huge melt down and i would give in and have to go out and find it, well he shed a few tears but that was it.
Morning came and i had kaylin run out and grab the bink before kiptin woke up and i hid it on the top of the fridge where he couldnt see it. I told kaylin not to tell him he got and that i was really wanting him to just not have it anymore so we came up with a "story" ( i know i know bad mom!). First thing he did when he woke up was run out on the deck and look down for his bink and it was gone, he kept saying "where go mum" and i went out and looked with him, we herd all the birds chirping and i said maybe a mommy bird picked it up and gave it to one of her crying babies. I told him to listen to all those crying babies and that one of them is so happy now and he smiled and thought it was pretty cool but soon reality set in to him and he wanted his bink back so bad, he kept asking for it and searching for it over and over again outside and we just kept saying a baby bird has it now.
he gave in and knew it wasnt coming back. months have gone by now and it has been so easy on him and us THANK HEAVENS!!
Now he See's a bink and he will either suck on it until we see him and then he gives it to us right away or just comes and hands it to us..so we have been binky free for about 4 months now!
Now if we can just get rid of the bed time bottle we would be free and clear....he loves his warm milk before he goes to bed...so that one is going to be tricky, iam still trying to come up with a way to say good bye to that one!

good advice!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, & next to the heart to be loved.

brothers forever

brothers forever

the haslem family