"Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly. Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes. This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows. " Thomas S. Monson

November 02, 2008

Thoughts of Thankfulness......

Today i was sitting around just relaxing looking at some old pictures of kaylin when he was born, I was just thinking as i looked at them how lucky we are to even have him here & healthy with us today. Sometimes i get so caught up in wondering why we haven't gotten pregnant and had another baby yet that i forget what a great miracle we have with us each day. when i started thinking about that i realized that i haven't given much gratitude where it is due for awhile, i just been so caught up in trying for another that we haven't looked at the bigger picture lately of exactly how lucky we are to even have one. we are so lucky to have kaylin with us and if he is the only child i could ever have i would be so thankful for just that. I know that nick and i will have more kids but i just wanted to get this off my chest and put it in writing so when I'm down i can look back and read this, not to mention this is the month of THANKFULNESS right so that also got me thinking and made me want to post something and since kaylin is my life and I'm most thankful for him i posted about him!
I will tell you why we are so lucky to have him since some of you may not know, i will tell you the short version: When we went in for our 4 month appointment my Dr. told us that he had a two vessel cord which is also called SUA (which affects between 0.5% and 7% of pregnancies, it occurs in fewer than 1% of cords) which mean in short that his cord only had one vessel and one artery and one vein, so he would not be getting very much blood, oxygen, and nutrition and he would have to be monitored very close for the rest of the time. He was checked by the specialist every week for fluid count, measurements, weight and any anomalies-which they categorize into these 3 sections: Heart Anomalies, Malformations of the Central Nervous System and Gastrointestinal Tract Abnormalities. Lucky they never found anything in any of the three sections. but it was only a 10% chance that he wouldn't have anything abnormal with him. anyways to skip to the end nick and i wanted to bank his cord blood just in case something did come up and he would have the very best treatment with his one stem cells from his cord, so we took the package to the hospital and the Dr. got it all ready to remove the blood as soon as kaylin was out (they do it before the cord is cut) and the Dr. looked at us as he had the needle in the cord and said "I'm really sorry but i just cant even get a drop of blood out of his cord, there is just nothing in it to get out". he told us after that if the specialist wouldn't have made me go up and get induced right away when he did that one more day maybe hours and kaylin would not have made it (2/3 of SUA babies die before birth). They told us right before they sent us to be induced that kaylin would be just about 4 lbs and would probably have to stay in the hospital for a bit, but he came out 5 lbs and 2 oz and didnt even have to stay in the hospital longer then me, we took him home the next day with us!
Sorry that was still kinda long but that really is the short version, so now you get why we are so very lucky to have him with us healthy and all!!!
WE LOVE YOU KAYLIN!





good advice!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, & next to the heart to be loved.

brothers forever

brothers forever

the haslem family