"Throughout our lives, we must deal with change. Some changes are welcome; some are not. There are changes in our lives which are sudden, such as the unexpected passing of a loved one, an unforeseen illness, the loss of a possession we treasure. But most of the changes take place subtly and slowly. Day by day, minute by minute, second by second we went from where we were to where we are now. The lives of all of us, of course, go through similar alterations and changes. The difference between the changes in my life and the changes in yours is only in the details. Time never stands still; it must steadily march on, and with the marching come the changes. This is our one and only chance at mortal life—here and now. The longer we live, the greater is our realization that it is brief. Opportunities come, and then they are gone. I believe that among the greatest lessons we are to learn in this short sojourn upon the earth are lessons that help us distinguish between what is important and what is not. I plead with you not to let those most important things pass you by as you plan for that illusive and nonexistent future when you will have time to do all that you want to do. Instead, find joy in the journey—now. Let us relish life as we live it, find joy in the journey, and share our love with friends and family. One day each of us will run out of tomorrows. " Thomas S. Monson

April 17, 2018

Karbon turns 3...

April 16, 2018

My last night with my two year old...

Tonight Mark's a bitter sweet mile stone...this is the very last night I'll have with a two year old of my own. Karbon turns 3 tomorrow, so tonight while I look at his sweet face and as he is all snuggled up with me in bed, I'll cherish this sweet memorie. With the three older boys I always had one to follow then but this is a very last, there are no others to follow karbon, he is all my "last" which breaks my mommy heart into pieces...it does actually HURT my heart, I cant truly feel the ache it has for all the "last" I have to go through.  But I'm proud and happy for my boys and how amazing they are, I love watching the new steps and stages in their lives.

April 06, 2018

Halloween 2017...

(another late post)
Here are some fun pictures from out Halloween (last year 2017)
Dad and mom were the Energizer Bunny
kaylin was a Grim reaper?
Kiptin was Cheif from the game HALO
Khailo was a dragon
Karbon was a lion

Khailo Goes to PreShool...

We signed khai up for a really good preschool at SUU college, they have had a blast this year and he has really learned so much!


Here are a few from his THANKSGIVING FEAST with us:

good advice!

Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, not from his feet to be walked on, not from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal! Under the arm to be protected, & next to the heart to be loved.

brothers forever

brothers forever

the haslem family